| Location | Kirkby |
| Age | 37 years |
| Date of Birth | 9/1969 |
| Date of Death | 8/2007 |
| Visitors | 7,951 since 29/08/2007 |
| Creator |
Carl Lacey
The most wonderful husband,father,son,brother, uncle,nephew & cousin you will ever meet, so happily married to Terrie with two beautiful children in Melissa 9 & Liam 7, much loved son of Frank & Teresa, devoted brother to Alan & Kelly, brother-in-law to Julie & Jay and the best uncle that Elliot,Grace,Corey,Louis & Josh could have ever asked for, he meant so much to both the Lacey & Feeney families, Tommy, Cathy, Rachael,John, Faye, Stuart,Reggie & Doreen amongst others, too many to mention, but you know who you are, he had so many friends, Alan Mc and his Everton Buddies to mention a few.
He brought a smile to everyone's face, no one would know the pain & suffering you were feeling because you would not allow that to happen. Even through all the times you were in hospital and the countless check ups and procedures you had to face in recent years you never complained you just fought it with so much dignity, unfortunately the time has come where you don't have to fight anymore because God has decided you are needed with him.
We have 37 years worth of memories, although this is not nearly enough what you have left us with is worth three times as much. Carl we promise not to disappoint you, your memory will stay with us forever, every second of every day i promise someone you blessed with your love will be thinking about you, you will never be alone, I know you will look down on us and guide us through the hard times ahead.
I hope you know already how much we all miss you but one day we will all be together again, until that time comes you and Justin catch up for old times sake and don't forget to hook up with the rest of the family who will greet you with open arms.
Always in our hearts xxx
Hiya mate, I know I don't come on here very often but I feel that everything about you leaving us has been said. I said the day you left us that nothing would ever be the same again and it never has! You know I think about you all the time and even now 4 years on I still can't believe your gone.
You were'nt just my cousin you were a great mate, we were always there for each other no matter what and thats what I miss the most.
I could gab on for hours about you, but I will just say that me, John and Caitlin love you so much and miss you forever and always xxx
Missing you xxx
Hiya Carl, well cant believe its 4 years today since youve gone. Miss you just as much as ever and think of you all the time. Wish we could see you again and just sit and have a drink and a laugh with you, ripping the back out of Cargi of course! Well me and Stu will raise a glass to you now and remember you with a lot of smiles on our faces but a few tears too no doubt! Hope you are taking care up there.
Love and miss you so much. Forever in our hearts
Love you millions Faye, Cargi & Alfie Carl xxx
hey daddy,
I cannot believe it has been 4 years
i miss you so much and I love you loads. I got my tooth out on tuesday I was meant to get it out a week before but I cried like a wimp and because i got so upset they let me see what the happy gas was like. when i eventually got my tooth out i did not hurt much. before i sat on the chair for them to start i was asking loads of questions and my mum thought i was going to have a nervous breakdown again but i got it done so as a prize my mum is booking skateboard lessons at rampworx for me. at the moment me and mummy are watching the rugby my mum is getting a bit exited about wigan warriors scoring i did not know she had such a wild side for sport haha. whilst me and mum are watching the rugby melissa is moaning about getting chester drawers in her room but my mum is not giving in. good on her because melissa just want to fill them with junk not clothes she wants her clothe left on her floorope haha. me and me mum are the only people who know are left and right in this house because melissa has to use her hands to figure it out. I get on her nerves because i say what is that and she says what and i say over there and she says over where and i say on your right and she has to use her hands so me and mum laugh. I am starting secondary school soon i am in top set because i got all 5's on my sats. my mum was very proud of me.at first she told me i got a five on my math and a three on my english and told me to go and get the envelope of her bed because i am only getting ten pound because i only got one 5. when i got up stairs on her bed was a blackberry box , chocolate box and a card i was really happy i could not stop crying. I have also had golf lessons off uncle joe they are finished now and i think i done really well also i have been fishing. my second time fishing i caught 3 fish i was very happy when i caught my first fish.
I miss you loads and i will never forget you lots of love hugs ans kisses love you millions and billions your son liam. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Hey Dad,
I can't believe it's been four years, i miss you so much!
I know your always with us, but its just not the same as having you here!♥
I'm 13 now and taller than mum, she's a midget, haha!
Mum let me get my belly button pierced last week, after months of me annoying her to let me get it done, it didnt really hurt, but i was dreading the needle ahah! Wonder how much you would shout at me for having it done, ahha! but ay with all your tattoos you can't say anything:P
mum took us to town the other day, she didnt want to spend alot, just get school stuff, lets just say i don't think she wants to take me shopping again, but on the good side, i have alot of new stuff!:')
me and liam are more argumentative than ever, mums sick of telling us to stop fighting so i think shes gave in now:L
me and mum sometimes wonder how liam got 5's in his sats, he's got no common sense at all! we go back to school soon:( summers gone so quick, well its not exactly a summer with this weather! liam's going into all saints, feel so sorry for his teachers! got my gcses this year, not looking forward to them:( were going to see tinie tempah in october, liam can't wait, but i'm quite excited to!
right im going to go, told mum i'll clean my room and she said she'll help me move it round, i think this is the 3rd time ive cleaned my room in the last week! mum hates it being messy but its not a horrible messy its a 'know were everything is messy' but mum wont have none of it, so ive gotta clean it!:L
Will write again soon,
Love and miss you loads♥♥
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Hi my gorgeous baby
another 12 months has passed..4 years since you left us and it's not getting any easier!!! It feels like forever since I seen you,held you,kissed you and I would give anything to do these things again.We were all up late last night...I hate last night and can never sleep but I think as the kids are getting older they're realising just how much they miss you..last night was hard!!
You'd be so proud of our kids Carl..they're growing into beautiful,clever,honest young adults.Melissa did really well in her end of year exams level 7 b/c in her core subjects english,maths & science (which she loves) and level 6a in her other subjects..she's going into yr9 and can do GCSE's this year so hopefully she'll do just as well in them.She has settled well into school and has a good group of friends..I was really proud of Liam and his SAT results..level 5 on all..I think he was proud of himself too..he's starting seniors in a week..will you keep an eye on him?? he knows how important his education is but new school new mix of kids...help him make the right choices babe.He's still playing football but like you he's trying his hand at other sports too.
Am gonna go now..promised Melissa i'd help move her room round something to keep us busy today!!!
Love and miss you millions & billions & trillions & zillions but you already know that.
Hugs & kisses forever
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4 Years Today !!
Hello Carlos, 4 years today, where do I start, still feels like yesterday, miss you so much kid, your smile and your ability to make everyone laugh, every day was a funfilled day with you, even though on the inside you suffered in silence.
I love you more than anything and wish I could see you, I miss you my lovely big brother xx
Love Always
Kelly, Jay, Louis & Josh xx
xx
Our Carlos, me and Jay just sitting here watching U2 on Glastonbury, Jay is reminiscing about seeing you at the U2 concert in Wembley way before I even met him, them were the days hey kid, your song has just come on and the tears are plentiful, even Jay has a tear in his eye, you would have loved it so much, your face used to light up, here it is just for you xx
If you twist and turn away, If you tear yourself in two again
If I could, yes I would, If I could, I would
Let it go, Surrender, Dislocate
If I could throw this, Lifeless lifeline to the wind
Leave this heart of clay, See you walk, walk away
Into the night, And through the rain
Into the half-light, And through the flame
If I could through myself, Set your spirit free
I'd lead your heart away, see you break, break away
Into the light, And to the day
To let it go, And so to fade away
To let it go, And so fade away
I'm wide awake, I'm wide awake
Wide awake, I'm not sleeping
Oh, no, no, no
Love and Miss you all the world xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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